Compliance Patterns

Read the Compliance Pattern, then click on the downward arrow to read the corresponding Recovery Pattern.

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  • In Recovery….I am committed to my own safety and leave situations that feel unsafe or are inconsistent with my goals.

  • In Recovery….I am rooted in my own values, even if others don't agree or become angry.

  • In Recovery….I consider my interests and feelings when asked to participate in another's plans.

  • In Recovery….I can separate my feelings from the feelings of others. I allow myself to experience my feelings and others to be responsible for their feelings.

  • In Recovery….I respect my own opinions and feelings and express them appropriately.

  • In Recovery….My sexuality is grounded in genuine intimacy and connection. When I need to feel loved, I express my heart's desires. I do not settle for sex without love.

  • In Recovery….I ask my Higher Power for guidance, and consider possible consequences before I make decisions.

  • In Recovery….I stand in my truth and maintain my integrity, whether others approve or not, even if it means making difficult changes in my life.

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